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Hello my friends.
I know… it is has been too long.
What can I say … life has been wonderfully filled with such joy.
It is not always perfect, but it has been grand.
If any of you were around back when I spoke of “IDIOT” (my daughters husband) I have some updates…
IDIOT has been in prison for 2 years now and at first, my daughter kept her vigilance of saying that IDIOT was the father of her daughter (Brookie) and wanted to give him the chance to prove he could do better by his family when he got out this time. = I know it won’t be the case.
Now, I am not saying my daughter is a saint… far from it, but she is my daughter and a mother does what she can to save, support and love all she can, right?
For months, early last year, even from prison, IDIOT was being his typical demanding self-absorbed IDIOT that he is and in April 2014, my daughter had a particularly hard time with how verbally abusive IDIOT was being toward her and she chose to go out with an ex-boyfriend and hooked up a few times. That resulted in her getting pregnant. She decided she wanted to keep this baby. I supported that. The father of the child has refused to acknowledge the baby.
My daughter gave me a beautiful baby boy grandchild (Baby Z) on Dec 21, 2014. He was born 3 ½ weeks early and was a tiny 5.2 lbs. He is a joy and thriving well of course.
After the birth, my daughter still was in contact with IDIOT, but less frequently. It got to the point that Brookie (IDIOTS and my daughter's daughter) did not even want to talk to IDIOT, which then drove IDIOT to be more verbally abusive to my daughter.
My daughter was finally seeing the light and stopped accepting IDIOTs calls in Feb or March of this year. Mainly because she met another man earlier this year. (The relief I was feeling was immenseBut, IDIOT has a way about him to stomp my daughter to the ground and the only thing she thinks she can do is please him and will bow to his needs. LUCKILY.. my daughter decided to stand up against this behavior. Whew!!!!
My daughter filed for divorce and by January, it should be finalized whether IDIOT signs for it or not.
This new man in my daughter’s life is not a saint… far from it. But he is not an IDIOT, so far. And , even though Baby Z is not his child, he has said he would love to care for him as if he was his.
I am happy for my daughter to be rid of IDIOT, and I honestly feel that she will be rid of the new man before long.
Before long, I know she will be on the right path and be the single mother she has to be.
Thank you all for living through all the craze of my woes and happiness.
If anyone cares...…The IDIOT story began here
And it continued…
May you all be blessed with your families, no matter the circumstances, they deserve your love.
I am not sure you all know these things about me…
= I have 5 boys that have given the most wonderful joy in my life along with heartache (the typical teen years of rebelliousness) but nothing compared to what I have gone through with my daughter.
= I have had 6 foster children. Five of them were from parents that were drug addicts, one was from an abusive parent. Hubby and I gave them all the love we could for the time we had them. As far as we I, none of them were returned to their parents and were adopted out. We are still in contact with one of them to this day.
= I have 7 grandbabies with another (granddaughter) due in February. Woohoo!
I truly am so blessed !
I still always hope that I could …